Addressing non-Muslims with 'Sir' or 'Dear' or the like

2-11-2016 | IslamWeb

Question:

In fatwa 86974, "Appropriate Way to Address Non-Muslims," it is stated that it is not permissible to start a letter by writing anything that could mean the glorification of a disbeliever by a Muslim, like the title ‘Sir’ or ‘Dear’ and the like. I need some clarification regarding the above fatwa. In India, we call our teachers 'Sir' for the male and 'Madam' for the female in schools and colleges. At work, in offices and other places, we call senior persons, colleagues and government staff 'Sir' due to their age and job position. Sometimes, one is unable to call one by his name. My intention is not to glorify non-Muslims. In this situation, what should I do? May Allaah reward you.
Answer:

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah and that Muhammad, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, is His slave and Messenger.

Scholars mentioned that the forbiddance in this hadeeth is especially for the one who addresses non-Muslims with such titles out of glorification, but if one addresses them with them to identify them or to be polite in speech, we hope that there is no harm in his act, Allaah willing. The author of ‘Awn Al-Ma‘bood said, "The statement in the hadeeth, 'You will incur the Wrath of Allaah (for addressing the hypocrite as 'master'),' this means that you make Allaah angry because you thus glorify him (the hypocrite) while he is not worthy of glorification."

Imaam Al-Munaawi may Allaah have mercy upon him cited the statement of An-Nawawi may Allaah have mercy upon him that reads, "It is forbidden to use such titles for glorification and not as customary way of addressing a person or signifying an official position (or a professional or academic qualification)."

Some scholars held that using such titles for non-Muslims is allowed in case there is fear of harm. Ibn ‘Illaan may Allaah have mercy upon him wrote, "The forbiddance applies unless the person believes that himself, his family, or his property would incur harm as a result of not using such titles."

Allaah knows best.

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