Necessary to fulfill a vow of giving a child religious education
11-8-2015 | IslamWeb
Question:
I made a vow to Allah, the Exalted, that if He blessed me with a boy, I would give the child a religious education, financially support him to achieve this, and show keenness in directing and urging him to acquire religious knowledge, hoping that he would be a source of help and benefit to Islam and the Muslims. Is this considered a vow? Is it permissible for me to give him any other type of education aside from religious education so that he would serve Islam and the Muslims? If I could not fulfill this vow, should I offer expiation?
Answer:
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad 
is His slave and Messenger.
A vow is defined as a commitment of a Muslim who is competent for religious assignments to do a particular act of obedience that is not obligatory on him before making that vow. Khaleel 
said:
"A valid vow is made when an adult Muslim who is competent for religious assignments commits himself to do to do a particular act, even if it is made in a state of anger … A vow is considered binding and valid when the person makes a vow to do an act that is recommended in all cases and times."
Therefore, making a vow to give one's child a religious education should be fulfilled.
As for your second question, the vow is interpreted according to the intention of the vow-maker. If you intended to give your son a formal education beside the religious one, then you may do so. However, if your intention was to give him a religious education only, then it is impermissible for you to direct him to any other kind of knowledge, except those fields of knowledge that are essentially needed for Islamic studies, such as Arabic grammar, morphology, semantics, rhetoric, and mathematics. As for your third question, the answer is that if the vow-maker is unable to deliver on his vow, then he is obliged to offer expiation like that for breaking an oath. However, in your case, you vowed to urge and direct your son to acquire religious knowledge, and being unable to do that is unlikely, unless your son was lost and could not be found, Allaah forbid.
Allaah Knows best.