Masturbation in marriage

4-5-2002 | IslamWeb

Question:

Is it permissible for my husband to masturbate over me, without me actually touching him and swallow his sperm? Is it also permissible for my husband to place his erect penis between my breasts, to hold them and masturbate?

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Answer:

All perfect praise be to Allah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allah, and that Muhammad, sallallaahu`alayhi wa sallam, is His slave and Messenger.

Masturbating through wife's hand or her body is permissible, since Allah allows a husband and wife to enjoy with each other as they wish provided one should avoid having sex in her anus or in vagina during her menses.

As for swallowing a husband's sperm, it is contradictory to sound nature and good manners.

Moreover, few scholars believe that sperm is impure; based on this opinion it is unlawful to swallow it. However, this opinion regarding the impurity of sperm is weak.

Allah knows best.