hello im a muslim of uk but have been married to a pakistani since 18 years who has all his life has given made me a mental paticent because of his bad attitude.he has made my kids against me and my mother wants me to leave him and return to uk. my kids are also starting to irritate me just like he did. i have become very sensitive and ill. what.. More
Assalamu 'Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah. Iam having problems with my wife. She Alhamdulillah a loving wife. But Allah' A'lam we quarrel often. I ask her to pray on time ( just 30-40 mins after athan and to recite qur'an. but she says it is not easy for her to do so as she has to take care of our kids (Alhamdulillah Allah bless us with 2 kids 2 years and the.. More
I found out that my husband was exchanging e-mails with his ex-girlfiend. I do not want this to ruine my marriage so I deleted the e-mails she sent him. Is this permissible? .. More
I'm married for 10 years and have 4 kids. I work for my parents. Every month my salary is spent on fulfilling home requirments. i am left without a cent for myself. when i complain to husband that my salary is not enough to cover costs, he tells me to ask for a raise from my father. when i am ill, i have to beg him to take me to a doctor which he pospones.. More
salam! My mother in law had objections on our marraige but still it was arranged, i had to wait 3 years after Nikkah.. for Rukhsati, so that my husband would convince his mother. but she did not agree at any cost and was persistant to divorce me. situation got worst, as i had aslo pressure form my family, but i did not leave my husband and remained.. More
Igot childeren from my previouse marriage, and my new husband he gets verry quickly angry, i used to reply him ,but since my mum told me when he is angry or shouts just keep quite and dont talk to him, everytime i do the same sometimes i dont talk to him nearly week and he doesnt talk , am i wrong what am doing. he gets quick angry to the childeren.. More
I am maried since 8 years, my husband is very nice, understanding, no demanding, he cares about me and his kids, he is very patient, but I have just a problem that he always busy by his work, emotionnaly he is so nice, but he does not give enough time to our private sexual life, we do get it sometime once every 15 days, do you think the fact that he.. More
i converted ti islam 10 years ago, and i got married 2 years ago and moved to my husband to another contry to avoid my family..my husband's family lives in the same city with us 10 mins away from our house.my problem is my hausband cares too much about his family specially his sisters though they r married and all his focus and concentration is on them.. More
Salam I have written before ,my husband had left me with all the bills and left the country, I was advised two choices to leave him or to wait for him I waited now he is back but Im not sure for how long Ive asked he said he needs a sign, I have thought long and hard about why he did what he did and I have admitted there are some problems (not any.. More
my question is that my husband has a torturing behavior towards me. i m passing through the roughest time i.e., 9th month of my pregnancy. he takes fun in saying bad about my brother, sisters and family, i feel that he is complexed. moreover, he has also started doubting at me. i can't bear this as i am already in the boiling water and need him in this.. More
Assalamualaikum dear brother. There is a relative of mine who was in love with somebody but her parents did not get her married to him.They got her married to a cousin of hers. What the family members dint know was that this cousin of hers had abused her constantly in her past and has raped her too at one instant. She did not divulge these details.. More
Asalamalaykum, I am married to a religious man since 15 years, have 2 boys and 1 girl, my husband prays, fasts, and is famous for his writing skills, islamic political issues. Here is the issue, First, he hide the fact that he had an earlier marriage, he disclosed this on our First Night, I felt cheated, but due to social stigma, I kept quite and accepted.. More
I am writing on behalf of my muslim friend who really wants to lead a pious life. Due to financial problems her husband has taken her jewelleries and pawned without her knowledge. When she got to know she had confronted him and over her anger she had hit him on his hand, which she regrets. Husband is religious in every way other than in the financial.. More
Assalamu -aliakum .iam a very emotional person .MY husband at times emotionally abuse me shouts at me of no particular reason .like if i say no for sex that is very rare he gets angry and if i talk to him about the problems iam having with him He makes fun of them later on or might angry and shouts at me after this he doesnt want me to cry and be nice.. More
Dear Sir, Asalamualikum. I am writing you from Bangladesh. I am a lawyer in profesion. I am in big problem regarding conjugal life. I got married on the 14th January 2009. Before getting married I had Istekhara done by two persons. Results were positive in both istekhara according to the persons who had it done. I did not do any istekhara by myself... More
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