if a husband refuse to have any physical relationship with his wife unless his wife 's parents bend down before the parents of her husband against any reason,what the wife should do towards her husband break up as well as in this matter for her parents,as for letting them accept husband 'demand? plz answer me in the light of islam.I am very depress... More
Assalamu Aleikum. First Peace Be Upon our beloved phorphet. My husband and I had arragments before we got married. We agree upon moving to Africa after Am done my studies and acquiring my citizen. All of a sudden he has changed his mind and he wants me to move back, while am still at school. My whole intention of going to school , is to help my fellow.. More
Assalam Alaykum. What is the ruling on a woman who has fell out of love with her once good husband because he has hurt her alot? What should she do? Will she be punished for feeling this way? He humiliates me at time of anger, swears at me when I make simple mistakes or forget to do something, and because he has problems at work and is in debt he takes.. More
Asalaam-O-Alykum I've been married to my husband for nearly 6 months and things have have been good and bad for 5 months. We argue alot, which i accept is my fault as much as it is his. I admit i'm not a practising muslim, i keep halal but i don't know how to pray and have only now started taking the time learn. My husband doesn't pray either, he usually.. More
I have 2 queston. I am a married women.It is said that NAMAZ protects oneself from all sins.Few month ago,i indulged in a major sin(zina) although i used to pray and seek allah's help in that matter but i could not help myself from falling in the trp of shaytan.Why this happen though i pray daily. second I committed the adultery presuaded and forced.. More
me and my husband are 2 brothers children(chacha/taya).whenever there are family differences my husband abuses and talks badly about my parents and expects me to support him all the time. sometimes i quietly listen to all that and at times i justify and protect my parents when i cannot bear to hear ill of them.he says he hates them but they love him.. More
i spend very long hours in relation to my work and my wife complains that i do not spend time with her at home. howver, i try to compensate by taking a few days off and spend time with her. on the other hand, she works too and i asked her to quit but she would refuse. my question is whether i owe her duties when she refuses to obey me regarding her.. More
I heard someone say that most Muslims will go to hell for a certain amount of time before they will be allowed to go to heaven. Is this true? And is it allowed to wish to be united in heaven with someone other than your present spouse? JazakAllahu Khair.. More
Assalamu Alaikoum, Dear Sir/Madam, I am InshaAllah getting married soon and i am looking for someone who can clarify on a matter. Actually i wish to know if it is a Sunnat of the Prophete (SAW) for the bridegroom and bride to share something sweet (e.g a date) after the Nikah ceremony or is this just a custom which has been followed from ancient time... More
Me and my husband, we living at my husbands mothers house with her. Every woman like her husband to make his own decesions as an independant man for his family (Wife and children). But in my case my husband only does everything what his mother says anything more than that with using his own sense, even sometimes when she's wrong, he still listens to.. More
AoA, I have a very close friend who just converted to islam after being married to her husband for 25 years. Unfortunatley it seems her husband doesnt want her to wear the hijab even though she does.She is sad and doesn't know what to do. She doesnt want to cause friction in her marriage and it seems her husbaand feels ashamed for his lack of knowledge.. More
i was expected to spend the day with my sister (who is on holidays), her husband and my parents on Saturday. That morning, my wife woke up and was not feeling too well - she had a very mild fever. I brought her to her mum's place and left her there for the day and i proceeded to spend the day with my sister and parents. Did i do the correct thing or.. More
I would like to know the status of the wife and the mother-inlaw. should the husband put his mother first before his wife and the wife must be second? ie: if i was ill and needed treatment and my mother-inlaw too, then who should get priority if the husband can only afford to pay for one? and also is the home that my husband provides considered his.. More
good morning I am pharmasist and i did not have moeny to open pharmacy so my husbend pay the moeny and oben it but every thing under my name because he can not oben it , sinc he is not pharmacist and now i can not take any moeny from the pharmacy for example i need to help my father to go to [hajj] he didnot agree . I want to inform you that i finsh.. More
Salam Alaykom. If I get upset with my husband for hitting the kids or getting home late from work or not calling, etc, will the angels curse me?? I don't want my husband to be upset when I am upset. If I go to sleep when I am mad, what will happen?? Will I be punished even though I didn't want my husband to be mad?? Jazak'allah Khair.. More
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